What can be Unsafe Online?
It’s easy to find fun things on the internet. But some of these things can be harmful to you online and in real life, so it’s good to be aware of the risks.
Sometimes, your online or virtual interactions may want to continue into the real world. More and more people are meeting up with someone they met online to buy second-hand items, connect with a new friend or to go on a date. If possible, your online interactions should stay in the virtual world, but if you need to meet someone, here are some tips for a safe (and successful) online meetup.
- Plan your meet-up. If you’re buying something from someone, choose a busy, well-lit public location to meet – shopping areas, police stations, restaurants or other similar areas. If the person you’re meeting is unable to find you, choose another busy, well-lit area to meet. If you’re going on a date or meeting a friend, it’s useful to choose a few of these areas in case you want to leave your first choice and go somewhere else.
- Let others know where you are going and when. It’s a good idea to bring a trusted friend or family member with you. This may work when you meet someone to buy or sell something but may not work at other times. You probably wouldn’t bring a family member or friend with you on your first date with someone you met online. In this case, let someone (or more than one person) know where you’re going and when you’ll be home. You can also turn on location services on your cell phone and share it with someone you trust.
- Be in control of what’s going on. If you’re meeting up with a person to buy or sell something, it’s important to know what you’re paying for and how you’re paying for it. They will most likely want cash, so it’s best to have only the exact amount with you. If you have other cash on you, keep it in a different pocket so they can’t trick you with a last minute change in the price. For friendly or romantic situations, it can be more complicated. Don’t get into a vehicle with someone you don’t know. Don’t be afraid to say no if you’re not comfortable with who you’re with or where you’re going.
- Have an exit strategy. Sometimes, even with careful planning something may happen and you need to get out of a situation. If this happens, it’s helpful to have someone you trust and who knows where you are so they can come get you, or meet you in a safe area. Always bring extra money for a cab or transit ride home. Make sure your phone is fully charged before you go out. Think about bringing an extra charging pack so you’re always able to contact somebody.
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