Leaving home and moving to a new place can be challenging. Leo – a SFU Co-op student at Foundry – shares his experience moving from Vietnam to Vancouver in hopes that others walking in similar shoes will feel less alone. 

Moving to Canada

Seven years ago, my parents sent me across the world, entrusting me with their dreams of a brighter future and the promise of opportunity. As an international student from Vietnam, I embarked on a journey that would not only shape my academic and career pathways, but also redefine my sense of home and belonging. While embracing the opportunity of studying abroad, staying connected with my homeland and culture has remained an important aspect of my life. I’ll explore the significance of food, community building and celebrating traditions as a few ways I have learned to establish a sense of home away from home in BC.  

My journey in Canada started off by living with an Indian homestay family in Surrey. This experience unexpectedly introduced me to the wonders of Indian cuisine, which included foods such as butter chicken, chicken masala, daal soup, and chai tea—all culinary gems that immediately won a place in my heart. The shared meals not only nourished our bodies but also fostered a deeper connection and understanding between us. Despite our cultural differences, my homestay “mom,” went out of her way to fulfill my craving for Vietnamese cuisine. Whether she was attempting to make spring rolls or taking me to Vietnamese restaurants and markets, her gestures helped to bridge the gap between cultures, making our bond even stronger. 

Living with a homestay family

When I was ready to move out from my homestay family, the culinary skills and cultural understanding I gained while staying with them helped me transition to the next chapter of being on my own.  Cooking Vietnamese dishes in university became more than just a ‘means to satisfy my cravings; it was a way for me to preserve my cultural heritage while also navigating the realities and challenges of university life. I received guidance from my family back home through FaceTime calls and texting. We have various group chats that include my mom, dad, sister, aunties, cousins, and even my grandma. Whether it was a direct conversation with my immediate family or seeking advice from extended family members in our group chats, I utilized every possible avenue to get the support and guidance I needed. Every dish I prepared became a journey back to cherished memories of family gatherings and shared meals, instilling in me a sense of comfort and connection despite being miles away.

My dad once told me, “If you want to truly understand and immerse yourself in a new culture, befriend its people.” Following his advice, I embraced opportunities to connect with both Canadian and international peers during high school. These friendships not only enhanced my experiences, but also broadened my cultural perspectives. Whether it was exploring the city together, sharing meals, or attending cultural events, these connections created a sense of belonging and support that felt real, regardless of the geographical boundaries. 

This time helped me really define the true meaning of friendship—these people were lifelines during moments of homesickness and uncertainty. Whether we were remembering the place we were born, exchanging stories about our families, or simply sharing a laugh, these connections reminded me that home is not just a place. It is also the people we surround ourselves with. Through these friendships, I discovered a second family—a network of support that helped me manage the difficulties of life as an international student in Canada. 

Finding a support network

Living abroad often means missing out on holidays and traditions from back home. During Tet (Lunar New Year) – a significant cultural event in Vietnam – my homesickness would increase. I soon found creative ways to celebrate Tet with Vietnamese friends, which became a tradition that helped recreate the warmth and joy of home. From preparing traditional Tet dishes to partaking in cultural activities like watching Tao Quan and giving out lucky money, these shared moments allowed me to reconnect with my roots in a way that felt authentic to me.  

Beyond personal experiences, international students have a variety of ways to stay connected with their home. Below are some suggestions I have for others, who may be in similar situations to myself!

  • Virtual communication tools offer an ongoing connection to family and friends that may be far away with just a click. Try Face Timing friends or family members when you feel lonely or are missing them. 
  • Engaging in local cultural events and festivals can provide opportunities to celebrate one’s heritage and connect with others who share similar backgrounds. Exploring cultural clubs and organizations on college or university campus’ (or in your community!)  can foster a sense of community and belonging. It can also create spaces where diverse perspectives are celebrated and shared. 
  • Reach out for support! You don’t have to navigate this change alone. Foundry is a great resource for international students to connect with peers, join a group or workshop, or talk to a counsellor. Visit www.foundrybc.ca/find-a-centre to find the centre closest to you or email info@foundrybc.ca  

Through these traditions and connections, international students can find a sense of home away from home, enriching their experiences and strengthening their bonds with both their original home and their new home.